“what happens when I start attending CCLF regularly?”
If you just started attending CCLF regularly regardless if you’re coming in off the street and have “zero” church experience, or you just blasted the pastor from Church A down the road and now want to see what’s happening over at here at Church B… it won’t be long before a pastor or another leader might approach you about connecting a little deeper – maybe together over lunch, dinner or coffee etc.
Cuz really, we want to know you.
And guess what… this is not happenstance. This is an intentional approach to get to know who you are, (while you’re checking out our fellowship, you are indeed being checked out too!) We want to find out your story – what makes you come alive spiritually, to consider your strengths and weaknesses etc., and how you might fit in at CCLF. We want to discuss your recent church life experience… if any. Why? Because we do not take lightly whom God is bringing to CCLF knowing that He is working in you and He is working in us, and apparently He is trying to match us together for some reason.
We want to identify those who have been in fellowship with another local congregation within our greater community of faith to ensure that their ‘transfer’ is as healthy as possible.
We recognize every situation is different and must be addressed as such. People come to church for all kinds of reasons and we want to assess the situation as best we can. That may include checking with former church leaders/pastors for a spiritual reference as well as finding out how we can best shepherd you.
As we move along in this process, we may find that there are deep wounds you are facing, that you were treated wrongly at another church, or maybe there are some things actually that you need to “own” as well in how you left the other church.
We are being intentional in this to make every effort to maintain unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace in the greater community of faith, as well as provide a healing touch for you. You need to know that you have entered into a restorative process and that we will do all we can to ensure the name of the Lord is not sullied in any way as He said we would be known by our love one for another.
“Now whoa!” you might say. “I just started coming to CCLF with no hard feelings for anybody! Am I to be scrutinized and examined like a sheep under a shepherd’s rod for heavens sake?!”
Well, exactly.
But really, for those who are coming into CCLF in a healthy way, we simply ask that you attend consistently for a period of three months before seeking out membership in our covenant community, building relationships throughout the congregation as best as possible and really trying to be a part of the life of CCLF. When a call for membership comes (usually two or three times a year) and you want to get on board at CCLF in an official way, talk to the pastor(s), attend a membership class and we will be blessed to move in that direction together.
Becoming a member of the covenant community will be a longer process for those coming in after having left badly from another church or without being commended by another church pastor/leader. It just will.
You gotta know this process takes time, both for your healing and the good of the community. You need to breathe. Don’t expect to jump in and lead something at CCLF for a while or to become a member of the covenant community for a while. We’re talking 6 mos to a year. This is a protective measure for both you and the flock. We ask that during this time, you keep a teachable, humble heart as you sit under the Word of God, develop relationships at CCLF, learn the spiritual DNA of CCLF, assimilate into the life of CCLF and live in healthy submission to godly leadership without speaking poorly of any other local evangelical churches or church leadership.
We might also recommend some good books to read such as John Bevere’s book Under Cover, or Making Peace by Jim Van Yperen.
And we will keep meeting together along the way to see how you’re doing.
Meanwhile, if you are walking into CCLF from another church and guess what, we learn you are under actual and appropriate formal church discipline for sin, or that in our estimation, hey, you should be, our first priority for CCLF leadership is to be supportive of your previous church leadership by saying “you should not be coming here until you deal with this my friend.”
And that’s just the way it is.











